![]() If you take the time to get to know someone that you’re not physically attracted to, you’ll be talking a lot more, having deeper conversations, and getting to know who they are behind their looks. We’re also more likely to rush into something physical if we’re attracted to someone, which can really speed everything up – sometimes too much! We get distracted by how much we want to kiss them, for example, and don’t pay enough attention to what they are actually saying or the personality traits they are demonstrating. When we’re really attracted to how someone looks, we can overlook their actual personality. You’re not shallow for wanting to be with someone really attractive, but, if you want to date someone long-term, go for a deeper connection and get to know someone even if you don’t find them physically attractive. Physical attraction is great, but it can fizzle out pretty quickly when you get to know each other on a deeper level and find that there is nothing there. The more open you are to getting to know someone, the more likely you are to find a genuine connection and someone who is a much better match for you long-term. It’s hard to remember sometimes, but there really is more to being attractive than how someone looks! We spend most of our time swiping on dating apps, making snap judgements based on people’s appearances, scrolling through Instagram making endless comparisons, and adding filters to our photos to make ourselves look ‘better.’ We live in such a visual world that we get really caught up on how people look. ![]()
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